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Ceremony Checklist

Your wedding  is one of the most important days of your life, so you shouldn't be surprised that it takes a little planning to make sure things go just right.  To help you make sure you get everything ready for the big day--from organ music  to the perfect floral arrangements --check out the following ceremony checklist.  It will keep you on track during a time that could otherwise prove quite chaotic.

One Year

  • Choose the wedding date/time/place.
  • Choose the reception time/place.
  • Decide the religious service that will be performed, if any.
  • Set your wedding budget

Then it's time to hire vendors and venues:

  • See if the ceremony and reception locations are available and book them.
  • Interview/Choose an officiant
  • Interview/Choose a photographer and then book him/her.
  • Interview/Choose a videographer and then book him/her.
  • Interview/Choose a florist and then book him/her.
  • Interview/Choose a baker and then book him/her.
  • Decide the type of music you want for both the ceremony and reception.
  • Interview/Choose the Band/DJ for reception and/or ceremony and book him/her/them.
  • Interview/Choose a caterer and then book him/her/them.

Six Months

  • First meeting with the minister/officiant.
  • Begin writing your vows.
  • Choose attendants and ask if they'll accept the position.
  • Begin looking for bridesmaid dresses.
  • Pick out tuxes for the groom and groomsmen/ushers/fathers.
  • Choose/book the location for rehearsal dinner.
  • Choose invitations.
  • Make your guest list first draft.
  • Plan the honeymoon.
  • Discuss if a bridal registry is desired and what items would be on it.

Two Months

  • Determine seating for the reception
  • Determine how the attendants will process and stand at ceremony.
  • Choose the reception music (1st dance, father/daughter dance, mother/son dance etc.).
  • Finalize vows.
  • Schedule the bride's hair appointment.
  • Schedule the groom's hair appointment if necessary.
  • Schedule a nail appointment for the bride.
  • Finalize the guest list.
  • Order the invitations.
  • Order the programs.
  • Reserve rental items like candelabras, linens, canopy, tables/chairs, etc.
  • Book rooms for out-of-town attendants at a nearby hotel.

One Month

  • Order flower arrangements.
  • Determine who will be in the limo.
  • Determine when the items needed at reception (toasting glasses, etc.) will be taken there.
  • Show the final program to minister and organist to check for accuracy.
  • Ensure the band/DJ has equipment/music needed to play your chosen reception music.
  • Pick up the wedding bands.
  • Confirm the honeymoon reservations.

One Week

  • Make a bride's emergency kit
  • Pack for the honeymoon
  • Take marriage certificate to minister/officiant.
  • Give final guest count to reception facility and/or caterer.

Day Before

  • Pick up wedding gown and veil. 
  • Pick up the groom's tux.
  • Take favours, centrepieces, cake knife and server, toasting glasses, and CDs to the reception hall.
  • Rehearsal and rehearsal dinner.

Related Guides

Ceremony Readings

Ceremony Order

Wedding Ceremony Music

Wedding Countdown Checklist

Choosing a Wedding Date

External Links

  • AmericanBridal.com: Wedding related shopping and advice.
  • Best-Wedding-Plan.com: Advice on everything from the engagement, to the flowers and cake toppers.
  • USMMA.edu: The wedding countdown checklist courtesy of the Mariner's Memorial Chapel.